There are two kinds of people in the world; those who say they’re happy and those who say they’re unhappy. For those that are happy and those that are unhappy, there is a strong link between happiness and persistence in life. The lack of someone happy driving to work every morning is a key factor in that wonderful feeling of liberation. After all, who would be surprised if one door closes and it’s never opened? It’s not like we’re being punished, though it is uncomfortable when something is, of course, that’s exactly what is happening, we’re just comfortable in ourselves knowing we’ll soon be living on that other side of the door.
You may think that is morbid but isn’t the idea of looking forward to something better when we live and start having fun on the other side of the door boring you? Why not grab what happiness can bring you in some way? I’m not one to lie to you or sugarcoat things; but, toothpaste there are some things that we can do to make life more fun in whatever way we choose to. A big piece in helping someone be happy is to accept them as they are and never try too much to please them or make excuses for them. They aren’t always going to like what you do, but try not to look at its outcome, just get out of their way. Always be good to yourself, without that, we can say to others, this person isn’t as happy as we are.
My husband told me once, “I’m a dreamer but I’m not a quitter.” Nobody is the complete complete complete of themselves, being human is a work in progress. A little bit of work, a little bit of talk, and a little bit of pushing forward can make it fascinating and you don’t have to know all the answers as you begin. The only wonder you need is to be alive anymore. That’s all we have in this life. Some people would have us know that everything is perfect just as it is, don’t look at imperfect things. Perfection is merely a concept that is impossible to evaluate. It has been scientifically established that a human baby is pre-wired with all the information and training it will ever need to succeed in life if it’s allowed the time to develop its brain. God can manifest itself in this way that separates us from the animal world. The only reason that baby hasn’t done better is that it was taught that too much is what makes you happy. All we have is our imperfections, and lots of talent but hopefully, that can be used to help out our fellow men and woman.
A smile and a positive attitude are the first steps in making some people happy. Asking questions is a service to the other person. Simply being happy if you have the energy and force to do so is a huge step. It is about keeping an open mind. Look at everything with a curious mind and a positive attitude. If you don’t see an answer or the other person is seeing the possibilities that only you can see for yourself, then you may be mistaken in being happy.
In the grand scheme of things, your life changes greatly if you can let go of being happy all the time. It reduces stress, strokes people’s relationships all around, and refuses to allow anything to enrich your life unless it’s positive. “Stress” is a buzzword, some people are using it as a way for them to exert control or exert authority and power over others. Be yourself and know what and who you are and she will understand what you have to offer.
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Use stress as a Remedy in your life so whenever you are needing it you have it. It is just like a drug to keep you going. And just so you know, stress isn’t going anywhere. It never leaves you, just waits until you can move from victim to victor.